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Me:
However, even then, I needed to "handle" brick-bats or stones or balls or arrows thrown at me from different directions, whether deliberately or induced or influenced or inevitably due to past history or manufactured or other types etc. And, as I wrote to my elder brother years ago, (maybe 1990s), I learnt to "move" rapidly, in my thinking, from one level to another, thus reducing the stress on myself, not willing to shoulder any more responsibility than I had to as my individual self only if that was needed, because I saw that various people, including family, friends, others, had their own expectations about me, what I should be doing etc, and like every person, I have my different roles, like being a son, a brother, a husband, a father, a relative, a friend, a neighbor, a community member, a student, a teacher, an employee, a citizen, etc etc, and we all have to "handle" our duties and responsibilities for all the roles we are in, to whatever extent we can, with all the pluses, minuses, limitations, biases, desires, egos, arrogances, others helping, others hurting etc, all included, trying to do the best we can, = and that's all we can do, not everything is in one person's hand or ability.
Me:
..And false accusations are even made by individuals who may justify it to themselves and those around them in the name of justifiable "politics" for manufacturing perceptions for helping in their agendas, (and I have seen it happen, with our temple efforts in New Jersey, during HTCS-HATCC merger talks, with people pushing for such a goal, to eliminate HATCC, to help the agenda of HTCS by deliberately bad-mouthing HATCC, its leaders, objectives etc, even mis-representations, false accusations also, back in 1990-91, early 1990s timeframe. The Indian American community here has come a long way since then; much transformation has happened.
Our temple effort, with its own community-internal & external politics, here in New Jersey, and its influence & impacts, here and beyond, including in USA, India, worldwide, on Hindus, Indians, as well as others, all people, has been pivotal, served as turning point, transformation catalyst, since 1987, and has opened up new ways, new possibilities, new views, new attitudes, new approaches for doing things, for life and living !!! And, one might add, for good & bad, whether you like it or not, but it is kind of inevitable, no other choice so to say, and is for Truth & Dharma, natural progress.
Me:
Hmmm.. Okay. It is for my son Kaviraj. and, I guess, we can say that there is a first time for everything. In any case, it can happen in lots of different ways, by one person telling another, amd onwards, ..like that ,, and suddenly, as if by magic, something happens, get a call or be introduced, etc, and it goes forward well. Usually, a third party intermediary is always there, someone often not deliberately perhaps, can be credited for pulling the boy and the girl together, for example, the secretary or even the computer or providence say, who put the two individuals in the same section of the class.. etc.. we can call it good luck also, PLEASE TELL YOUR FRIENDS. that's all i am asking. it is very easy to help me. THANK YOU. "
THIRUMALA RAYA USHA KAVIRAJ SHILPI RAYA HALEMANE HALEMANE